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Listener Favorites- Rebecca Beltran | a Professional Courtesan's Guide to Intimacy and Connection
The Unmistakable Creative Podcast
- Unmistakable Creative Back Stage Pass And that’s a pretty interesting thing to think about, being held and being touched by another chimp, or by a human, helped them thrive, you know. And i feel like we lose sight of that as adults. Women in aure culture, it’s much more acceptable for us to touch and chat and hold hands and connect and lean on each other and hug. And with guys, especially older guys, it’s not so much the thing. Transcript: Speaker 1 Interesting thing to think about, being held and being touched by another chimp, or by a human, helped them thrive, you know. And i feel like we lose sight of that as adults. Women in aure culture, it’s much more acceptable for us to touch and chat and hold hands and connect and lean on each other and hug. And with guys, especially older guys, it’s not so much the thing. You know, i feel like there the younger generations (Time 0:00:34)
- Are You a Courtesan? “I started high school is a bookworm, pretty unpopular. And then the next year i did some sports, which i felt really good about,” she says. “So i was unning with the smart kids.” Transcript: Speaker 2 Weird questions that have nothing to do with your work. Ah, so whon istart asking what i think is actually kind of a fitting question given your story. And that is what social group we are part of in high school, and what impact that end up having on the choices that ou’ve made throughout your life and career? Speaker 1 O know, that’s a very interesting question, because i was one of those kids. I started high school is a bookworm, pretty unpopular. And then the next year i did some sports, which i felt really good about. So i was unning with the smart (Time 0:02:11)
- Are There Any Factors That Make a Difference? “i’m just curious about people. And ive ben all different walks of life, and they’ve fled different and interesting lives,” she says. “I feel like i had a different friend group a it made it really easy for me to shift around.” Transcript: Speaker 1 Year i had a different friend group a it made it really easy for me to shift around and get to know different types of people. And i think how it’s affected me is, i’m just curious about people. And ive ben all different walks of life, and they’ve fled different and interesting lives, and i like hearing about it. Speaker 2 What? What are the lessons you took away fom each group that you feel hov shaped til you’ve become what you’ve done? And you know, kind of how you see the world from the athletes. Speaker 1 I feel like (Time 0:02:58)
- The Four Archetypes of Happiness i just had ah tall ben char here, the guy who basically runs a happiness course at harvard. is suc funny. And he makes this really interesting distinction, you know, what he calls sort of the four archetypes of happiness. You have the sort of hedonistic pleasure seeker and people who spend their id places like burning mad eta. Transcript: Speaker 2 It’s is suc funny. Speaking of pleasurelik, i just had ah tall ben char here, the guy who basically runs a happiness course at harvard, is a kind of, you know, outside of a martin salligman, probably the Other godfather of this whole positive psychology movement. And he makes this really interesting distinction, you know, what he calls sort of the four archetypes of happiness. And he sais, you know, tha, you have the sort of hedonistic pleasure seeker, which you kind of see, you know, with people who do a lot of drugs, people who spend their id places like burning Mad eta, like this is their in a sole existence, but they have to keep seeking a pleasure mechanism, because the pleasure doesn’t last. (Time 0:05:46)
- 26sec Snip It’s a good question. I feel like it has a lot to do with paying attention to fulfilment. Because to me, pleasure ind fulfilment really go hand in hand. But i think the’re a lot of people whave been disconnected for a while, but real pleasure is fulfilling. And if wou’re having that kind of hidonistic pleasure, that’s ok. This week end is really, really fun. But next week im woing to be paying for it, and i got to find another way to to excite myself the week. And after that, you’re kind of missing the point of life, right? Transcript: Speaker 1 It’s a good question. I feel like it has a lot to do with paying attention to fulfilment. Because to me, pleasure ind fulfilment really go hand in hand. But i think the’re a lot of people whave been disconnected for a while, but real pleasure is fulfilling. And if wou’re having that kind of hidonistic pleasure, that’s ok. This week end is really, really fun. But next week im woing to be paying for it, and i got to find another way to to excite myself the week. And after that, you’re kind of missing the point of life, right? (Time 0:06:33)